New Year 2025 and January and February 2025 Wrap Up

Sorry this post is so very late. And welcome to 2025. Crazy.

New Years goals are hard as a parent. Or maybe just for me, I'm not really sure. There are so many things that I'd like to do, but I am not always able to do much more than I already am. So much of my time is just spent getting by. Babies take so much time and energy. And they get it first, always. Not that I would trade Gabriel for anything. It is kind of amazing how much you can love someone. Even when I am tired and frustrated. So goal one, I want to keep trying to be a better mom. It is a continuous goal. I think I have done better over time, but I do see all my own shortcomings, especially when it comes to my own patience.

My job is absolutely draining and exhausting. It makes it hard to do anything extra. I haven't decided if I want to start looking for something else or if some of the work, spite, and the people I really like can get me through longer. I have also thought about possibly cutting my hours to see if having a little more time to myself will help. I haven't made a decision about that yet.

I set my reading goal for 75 books again this year. There were times I thought I would not make that last year, but I managed. I think I underestimate how much I am able to catch up once we reach spooky season. I also want to keep reading through more of my Owlcrate backlog, which is going pretty well so far.

I also want to keep up on my journal and (hopefully) here on my blog. I will do my best. It is obviously already behind.

And the main reason I am starting off so behind is because we moved to a new place. Which is great and we have more space and we are really liking it. But it was soooo hard for me to find time to actually move and pack and then we had to clean everything, but we also had a baby who did not want to let us (me) get anything done. Which continues to be a challenge especially for me unpacking and putting things away. Despite my commute being much longer now, I am so much happier at the new place. I will manage. Plus Gabriel has gotten sick numerous times, once with RSV. He was recently vaccinated so his case was pretty mild, but having to keep him home from daycare and not having much time to take off from work makes things challenging. Poor kiddo. I think this is just part of toddler life: regular illnesses.

I did a walking challenge with some of my girlfriends in February and that was fun. We participated in a Conqueror challenge and I am trying to continue to walk more and may do another one on my own in the near future. I am also planning a short vacation with a couple other girlfriends for June (without the baby) which I am really excited for.

Since this is so late, I will try to keep my reviews extra short, but I do want to share the books I read. Especially because a couple of them were surprisingly great.

 

 

At the End of the River Styx 

by Michelle Kulwicki 

Synopsis/Thoughts: Zan traded his life to the Ferryman of the river Styx to save his mother's life and was charged with working for the Ferryman for 500 years and has made it through 499. Meanwhile, Bastian is dealing with the aftermath of his mother's death and not doing it very well. He barely survived the accident that killed her and his near-death experience causes him to cross paths with Zan who is meant to bring him to the Ferryman. But as they spend more time together, they both start to change. This book was good and so bitter sweet. There were things I loved, but things that I felt dissatisfied with (and I think we are meant to, so that's OK).

4 stars out of 5 stars

 

Fangirl by Rainbow Rowell

Narrators: Rebecca Lowman, Maxwell Caulfield

Re-read

5 stars out of 5 stars

 

 

Carry On by 

Rainbow Rowell

Narrator: Euan Morton

Re-read

3 1/2 stars out of 5 stars

            

 Wayward Son and Any Way the Wind Blows

by Rainbow Rowell

Narrator: Euan Morton

Synopsis/Thoughts: The stories of Simon, Baz, Penny, and Agatha continue. They visit America and confront crazy vampires. Upon returning to England with a cursed mortal in tow, the gang try to find their own paths. I enjoyed the rest of these books. They were fun reads and I am glad that some of the loose ends were wrapped up. I was surprisingly pleased with Agatha's part of the story.

3 stars out of 5 stars and 4 stars out of 5 stars

Landline by Rainbow Rowell

Re-read (many times over)

5 stars out of 5 stars 

 

Boyfriend Material by

Alexis Hall

Narrator: Joe Jameson

Re-read

5 stars out of 5 stars 

 

Incendiary by Zoraida Cordova

Synopsis/Thoughts: This was an older Owlcrate book that I decided to pick up on a whim. The story follows Renata, a magical Moria with the power to steal memories with a touch. As a member of the Whispers, a group of rebel Moria, her goal is to help bring down the king and his family and free Moria from their cruel reign. But everything changes when her unit leader (whom she loves) is captured by the evil crown prince. This book took a while for me to get in to, but it took me by surprise and I LOVED it! I can't even say why. It kept me guessing and thinking and wondering. Though there was one twist that I sort of guessed at right away. I have gone back to read the first part and can't figure out what was said that made me guess it, but something did. Anyway, I ended up enjoying it way more than I expected to and am currently reading the sequel.

4 1/2 stars out of 5 stars 

 

The Gilded Ones

by Namina Forna

Synopsis/Thoughts: Another older Owlcrate book that I decided to finally pick up. And another one that I ended up liking more than I expected. This one also took me a little bit to get into. Deka lives in a small village in a very religious country. When girls reach a certain age, their blood is tested to make sure that it is red and not the cursed gold of impurity. When Deka's blood turns out to be gold, her death is all but assured. But a mysterious woman offers her another choice and Deka takes it. I really enjoyed this read. There were lots of strong women, which I love. But the main thing that caught me up was the loyalty. When the girls swear loyalty to one another (even when they don't much like each other), they keep that oath always. And when Deka has a love interest, his loyalty NEVER wavers, even when she expects that it should. I love that questionable loyalty or ones who leave and return were not used in this story to create drama. There is a second book, though this one can kind of stand on its own. I haven't decided if I will read the next one or not yet.

4 stars out of 5 stars

 

What the Woods Took 

by Courtney Gould

Synopsis/Thoughts: What would you do if you were kidnapped in the night and taken away to a camp for troubled teens? Devin does her best to fight (nothing new for her), but ends up in the woods alongside two young counselors and four other troubled teenagers. They are meant to come out at the end of the program as better versions of themselves. But as they go along, their counselors disappear and the group discovers that the woods may be more dangerous than they first appear. This was the Owlcrate book for January so I was able to participate in the read-along on the Nest app (I will try to keep up with the books that are released this year). This is probably not a book that I would have picked up myself, but it was pretty good. I grew to like most of the teenagers and was invested in their journey. And I generally liked the way it ended.

3 stars out of 5 stars

Favorite book read in January and February: aside from the obvious favorite re-reads, Incendiary

Least favorite book read in January and February: What the Woods Took

I should be about on schedule to hit my reading goal of 75 books. And I managed to read the January Owlcrate book with the read-along group and read 3 backlogged Owlcrate books. Though At the End of the River Styx barely counts because it was the December 2024 book. So I think I am off to a good start.

Anyone else have good reading goals or books to share? Thanks for sticking with me! I will try not to be so late next time.

Review of Carry On

I just finished reading Carry On by Rainbow Rowell.

Do you ever feel reluctant to finish a book because it's so good? And you are afraid that no other book could ever be as good? This was one of those for me. (I have felt this way about all of my favorite books.)

And it is soooo very nerdy. I love it.

In case some of you need the background story, here is a brief synopsis. In Rainbow Rowell's novel, Fangirl, the main character is obsessed with a series of books-the Simon Snow books. The author is getting ready to release the final volume in the series and the main character (of Fangirl, not of the Simon Snow series), Cather, is trying to finish her epic fanfiction: Carry On, Simon.

Well this book IS her fanfiction! That's right, it is a fanfictional (is that a word?) ending to a series of books that doesn't even exist. And if that isn't some sort of epitome of nerdy, I don't know what is.

Anyway, I got very attached to most of the characters. Especially Baz, Penny, and Ebb. Side note: what the hell ever happened to Nicky after he tried to help Baz?! Did I miss that? And does Simon ever find out about his parents?

I did not like Agatha. She can jump off the drawbridge for all I care.

I love the way that magic works in their world, all based on phrases, lyrics, et cetera, that hold influence and power. And that explains their need for normal people as well as spell evolution.

And I felt that the ending was kind of bitter sweet, especially for Simon. 

Overall, I loved this book, but I could see that it's definitely not for everyone. It's another of those that, I think, has a specific target audience. But for me, 5 out of 5 stars.

Fangirl Review

I liked this one so much that I wanted to share it here as well as my book blog.

I just finished Fangirl by Rainbow Rowell, which I read via audiobook (it counts, this very book says so).

I went in not expecting much because I had heard that it was good, but that it didn’t live up to her other books. Granted, I have never read anything else by this author (yet). But I ended up giving this book 5 out of 5 stars. I love it.

This book spoke to me on another level. I felt like she was in my head for much of this book. I related to the main character in so many ways (except that I am not a great writer, of fanfiction or fiction. Let me know if you need a research paper written). I saw myself in the main character, Cather (also, I love that name). When she was feeling betrayed and like her world was coming down, I related to her then, too. I cried for her (and for myself because I have been so emotional lately and her emotions spoke strongly to mine). But I also wanted to wrap her up in a blanket and love her and take care of her.

I was anxious for so long because she would not do her assignment! And it drove me so crazy that I was talking to her (I talk to my audiobooks if they are good. It’s a sign that I am drawn in and invested, not a sign that I am crazy...).

Book quote: “‘No,’ Cath said, ‘seriously. Look at you. You’ve got your shit together, you’re not scared of anything. I’m scared of everything. And I’m crazy. Like maybe you think I’m a little crazy, but I only ever let people see the tip of my crazy iceberg. Underneath this veneer of slightly crazy and socially inept, I’m a complete disaster.’“ I got to this part and went, “That’s me!”

I also loved her roommate, Reagan. She was so funny and just a little wild. But through the teasing (which was legitimately funny), she always had Cather’s back when it really mattered.

And I thought it was wonderful how Cather could escape into her fictional worlds. As a fantasy reader myself who is not always in touch with the real world, it was nice to meet a character who felt the same way. That’s one of the reasons I read: to escape and explore different worlds.

Additionally, the narrators of the audiobook (yes, narrators plural) were very good. It was done a little differently than other audiobooks I have listened to, but it was good!

I could see how this book would definitely not be for everyone and I did see many negative reviews. I think there is kind of a target audience, of which I am a part of. For me, this was a very personal read and it made me laugh and cry and think. So I love it.